Lowtech Graph lists low-tech options for every need of a home. Here you can compare them, find tutorials to build them, and link them together into a circular system. Why low-tech?
Turning what leaves the toilet into something that can safely go back into the ground or into a sewer. Bacteria do the work in every case; the difference is what they are given to work with. The options differ in the quality of what comes out, in whether they need power, and in how much land they take.
Ranked by effluent quality. The aerated package plant sustains oxygen-loving bacteria and produces the cleanest effluent from the smallest footprint, at the cost of a continuous power draw. A constructed wetland reaches good quality passively but needs real land area. A septic tank settles and digests anaerobically, leaving the drain field to do the final polishing, which is why its site requirements are the strictest.